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Living With Herpes Doesn’t Mean Your Life Is Over

What Is Herpes?

Herpes is the name given to a common virus that causes sores on your mouth (oral herpes) and genital area (genital herpes). Though herpes can be painful and annoying, it rarely leads to complicated health issues. It is a good idea to understand the best ways of living with genital herpes to have a better and healthier life.  

Genital Herpes Facts – 1 in 5 have genital herpes. genital herpes. This means that there might be people you know that have herpes.

Herpes is a common infection and currently, there is no known cure. To get the bigger picture, more than half of the American population has oral herpes and about 1 out of 6 Americans have

What Causes Herpes?

Herpes results from two similar viruses, the herpes simplex virus type 1 or HSV-1 and herpes simplex virus type 2 or HSV-2. These two viruses can result in sores around your mouth, throat, lips, eyes, inner thighs, scrotum, penis, anus, cervix, vagina vulva, and butt.

Herpes is spread through skin to skin contact with infected areas of the body especially during oral sex, anal sex, vaginal sex, and kissing. Normally, herpes causes outbreaks of itchy, sometimes painful blisters and sores that come and then disappear. Most people with herpes do not know they are infected and some do not actually experience the symptoms. Though there is no medication for herpes, there are medications that can be used to treat the uncomfortable symptoms.

What To Do If  You Find Out You Have Herpes

To be honest, finding out that you have herpes can be a bummer. Most people feel embarrassed, mad, upset and ashamed. Well, it is mostly a mixture of confusing emotions. Fortunately, you will start feeling better with time and you’ll realize that having herpes is not such a big deal. Lifestyle has a lot to do with your happiness moving forward.  Fortunately, with a few diet changes and medications, you can almost eliminate the risk of spreading HSV.

The truth is, there are millions of people living with herpes throughout the world; you are not alone!  Most people end up with at least one STD in their lifetime. This means you are a bad or ‘dirty’ person if you have herpes, that thinking is total nonsense. The fact you can get herpes without ever having sex, or ever kissed on the lips means that a lot of people are at risk of being infected with herpes.
More about having sex when you have Herpes.

The best thing you can do after finding out you have herpes is to follow all the instructions your doctor gives to you. You might also want to find a support group where people with herpes give advice and support information to each other.

How Do I Tell People I Have Herpes?

It might seem like a scary thing to admit to people that you have herpes. When you talk about your herpes, you will actually have an easy time and ease your mind. For a start, you can start with a close friend who you can trust to understand you and not be judgmental. Other family members can also be comforting. Due to the common nature of herpes, it could be that the people you are talking to also have herpes.

Fortunately, there are many support groups, especially online where you can talk with other people who have herpes. There are some support groups that meet in person and can help you build your confidence when it comes to talking to people about your herpes.

What About Dating With Herpes?

After the herpes diagnosis, you might feel like your love life is over. Well, this is not the case since herpes is not a life-threatening infection. People with herpes can have romantic lives and get into relationships with people living with herpes and those who are not infected.

Talking about your herpes status is not the best conversation you will ever have. However, it is important that you talk about it with your partner to help prevent its spread.

Tips For Talking About Herpes When Dating

There is no universal way to approach the herpes topic when dating. However, the following are useful tips that might make things easier:

Keep calm – There are millions of people with herpes and most of them are in healthy happy relationships. Approach this topic with calmness, a positive attitude, and confidence. Keep in mind that herpes is just a health issue and should not define your personality.

Get the other person involved – Involving the other person in the conversation is a good idea. Start by asking them what they know about STDs, and if they have ever been tested. You might be surprised that they have had experiences with STDs and will understand your case.

Have your facts right – Due to the herpes misinformation readily available, it is important to have all the facts about the disease. This will play an important role when you are explaining the infection to your partner.

Timing – Choose a time when there are least of distractions. Choose a private place and make sure you are all relaxed. Practice what you will say because it will give you confidence.

Be Safe – If you are afraid that the person might be violent, use a text, phone call or email.

Learn more about How-to tell someone you have herpes before you have sex with them. 

Herpes Dating Sites

An STD dating site is the best alternative places to find romance. This is because the singles you meet there will not judge you and are actually looking for people like you.

Herpes Treatment

It is important to note that there is still no known cure for herpes. However, there are many different medications that can be used in the treatment. The medications will alleviate the symptoms and get rid of the pain and discomfort associated with herpes outbreaks. It is a good idea to understand all the preventive measures you can use to prevent the spread of herpes.
More about Herpes cure information 

In Conclusion

Get tested for STDs because there are cases where herpes symptoms are not visible. Herpes is a common infection and a lot of people are living with genital herpes and oral herpes. Always remember that if you are diagnosed with herpes, you are not alone. There are many others and this means that you should not lose your self-esteem, or feel embarrassed. Just get the necessary treatment and follow all the instructions for a better, healthier, and happier life.